Monday 19 February 2024

The Dude Abides

 And by The Dude, I mean me. It just didn't work for a blog title and once it was in my head I couldn't tink of another title. The T Abides? I Abide...ANYWAY. I have a title. Let's begin.

When we last chatted, the weather had been and was going to be horrible forever. I wasn't feeling happy about that. Sophie also had a sore back and I was questioning saddle fit. I was even less happy about that. I think I had an even longer list of complaints, but I don't recall them so let's take them off the list because  I must have either resolved them or buried the 'trauma' deep enough to forget it ;)



Since we live at the end of the earth, I went with another virtual saddle fitting for Sophie and it was decided that the saddle looks good and is not in need of any changes. Which really gives me no clarity as to why she was progressively getting more miserable with it. I'm trying to set up a travel day to meet up with someone in person, but even finding someone willing to meet within a day trip for me is looking like it's months away. So, not ideal.


Barn kitty proof of life

 In the meantime, it was suggested I play with girth options, because the other place Ms Sophie is/was super cranky about was her pecs, all the way from the center of her chest back under where the girth would sit. It's always been a bit of a touchy area for her (and why finding a blanket with front buckles she doesn't hate is a bit of a thing). It's hard to know with her sometimes what is a legitimate complaint and what is something she should reasonably be able to deal with...this is after all the same pony who has a full on tantrum if she gets a little sweaty and has maybe 2 brushes she finds borderline acceptable to touch her golden self.

Surprisingly accurate

But, there's about zero excuse for letting riding be uncomfortable for her, and she was definitely a bit sore. Feeling constricted/uncomfortable with the girth would cause bracing and a reduced range of motion in front, and that can actually also cause lower back soreness (as well as the tight pecs). This of course could be a pointless rabbit hole to travel down, when maybe the issues originate with the saddle (or my riding to be fair), but hey, it's only money, so I've ordered yet another girth that promises miracles. Wish me luck.


I've dug out every other saddle I own or have access to and nothing is even close to fitting so I have to admit I really don't see anything off about the one she's got. Ordering a nice sheepskin bareback pad is tempting but also might be a dumb way to die with my less than mad riding skillz and a winter fresh pony. We'll see.

For now, while we continue to try various saddles and girthing options in an effort to find something she's consistently happy with, we're doing a lot of in hand pole work and stretches (Jec Ballou's books coming in handy once again), plus long lining and then longeing in side reins one a week or so to help keep her muscles and fitness up. I have some goals this spring and I'm motivated to get back to a regular riding schedule.


As for the babies, they continue to grow like little weeds and they continue to cause chaos and destruction wherever they go. I've put the work in and they're actually really nicely mannered to handle, but left to their own devices one of their favorite games is stealing anything within reach and using it as a chew or stomping toy. 


Caught in the act

They're also not tidy creatures and their paddock and Pony Cottage looks like a bomb went off every morning. "This is why we had mares for so long!" I like to say to G. Even though the little guys are so, so easy compared to the mares I've had...they're forever cheerful and agreeable and generally have no opinions about anything, as long as I don't. Their gelding day inches ever closer and I'm interested to see if group turnout with Sophie over in the neighbour's big field is going to be a possibility in a couple of months.


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  1. Ugh I'm so sorry you're in saddle fitting he**. I hope this girth is magic for her!

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    1. Thank you. Fingers crossed. I anxiously await delivery :)

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  2. Ah, saddle fitting/girthing issues are no fun at all. So many different possibilities/combinations. It's a minor miracle to find something that works. The boys look super cute as does the barn kitty. I had not seen that "how to pet a cat" graphic, but I understand the sentiments behind it. Trying to pet certain cats can be like trying to saddle-fit certain horses!

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    1. My previous horses must have all been SO tolerant... I know I used saddles that 'weren't quite right' while we waited for a new one or had adjustments done, or borrowed something so we could jump now and then and no one ever complained. Part of me is wondering why Sophie can't just be a little more like that, but fair enough, she knows what she wants...I just need to find it :)

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  3. Honestly, a lot of Carmen’s bitchiness was fixed with a switch in girths. Not all, mind, because Carmen. But a lot. It also took a few rides for her to show me that life was better.

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    1. That gives me hope! I'm starting to get a collection of them without anything seeming like the definitive answer, but I'm wondering in the back of my mind that worst case for now, if I just rotate three or four of the most acceptable ones so nothing is too annoying for too long. I don't think there's anything in existence that she isn't going to sweat under and is also soft/sheepskin and also doesn't put any pressure anywhere, but I try lol

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  4. Oof im so sorry you're back at saddle fitting misery. I was in that weird, saddle pretty much fits, no soreness but very girthy pony limbo, and took the plunge and bought her a fluffy girth. I've heard a lot of people tell me straight girths made of natural fibers (fleece, sheepskin is better, mohair) are best, I'm debating if we need a moon shape just because her girth likes to migrate forward and we get this weird gapping looseness at the first billet but snug at the second. Regardless, one $130 Engel sheepskin girth later, and she's been less opinionated when we get to putting on the girth. One of my past trainers argued her horse prefered a sheepskin saddle pad too, I told Dee that was too expensive to try.

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  5. good luck with the saddling / girthing situation.... doozy has been wearing charlie's saddle for the last couple months and it's ok, but not perfect and maybe increasingly less perfect, and i'm just like, ugh noooooo :'( .... it's just so hard to get everything just right. like, yea it's true that horses get sore from the work itself (same if i try to jog around the neighborhood, i'm gonna be sore afterward while those muscles develop!), but yea it's also true that we have to do the best we can with fitting their gear appropriately. it's just never easy i guess, womp...

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  6. Ugh with having to buy a new girth... I'm saving up for a stupid expensive one for Cisco as he's been a bit fussy when tacking up lately. Here's hoping that new girths solve everyone's issues!

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