Wednesday, 5 November 2025

We Survive, Maybe We Even Thrive

Autumn is my favorite season. BUT. Halloween.

I love the idea of all things Halloween, however, having horses at home in this particular part of the world on Halloween night can be an absolute nightmare. For a variety of historical reasons, it's our occasion for fireworks. More locally, our normally quiet and isolated semi rural neighbourhood is the place to be.

This year the weather had been absolutely horrible and I didn't see a ton on social media about neighbourhood parties beyond the odd person saying they might postpone due to weather. The horses had been fine the last couple of years even with some very close by firework displays, so I wasn't overly concerned for them.

No fancy pictures this week, but here's a shiny pony

However, the weather cleared last minute and things literally started with a bang with some guests of our neighbours lighting screechy firecrackers and pointing them to go off over the horse's paddocks. I was actually out cleaning paddocks and it felt like a near death experience, because there's a big difference with horses OK with fireworks nearby and firecrackers actually 'chasing' them and exploding above their heads.

The horses were super rattled and there wasn't much hope of coming back from it when the regular firework parties started. They exceeded all previous years, and then some. It was absolute insanity. Things didn't settle until about 3:30am, only to start up again the next day and night. My ears are still ringing days later and I most definitely had an overwhelmed/sleep deprived meltdown or two of my own. I can't imagine how the horses felt.


Silver linings of animals and fireworks is that after 2.5 years our grumpy kitty decided he could share 'his chair' with his baby 'brother'

Luckily they are all Best Ponies, and very polite, so me standing with them during the worst of it and and having a halter/lead on Reggie and walking him (he's the most reactive and the other two were feeding off it) was enough to curb the blind panic and impending fence/stall demolition. I just cannot with horses sometimes, why are they so incredibly trusting and kind?

I preemptively booked space at the therapeutic riding barn over at our club grounds for next year, and have a request in for sedatives from the vet, because there is no way I can handle or want the horses to handle anything like that again in this lifetime. 

In non Halloween news, the weather has been fairly horrendous and our upcoming mid month clinic is a no go, which is completely understandable. Winter came early and you'd have to be extremely dedicated to even think about riding outdoors in the wind and rain we've been having - it feels like we're constantly in some kind of weather warning, plus it's too dark to see much at about 4:30, yuck!!

Reggie is the only one who wants to leave his haynet and go outside in the rain, and even he's not sure some days

Outside of horses I'm making a change and feeling out moving to consulting/contract work. The security of my existing regional gov't job is hard to leave, so I'm doing both while I feel things out. That means I'm putting most of my 'real' life to the side to make career moves happen, but this does feel like the perfect timing for that. If I was going to do it I needed to do it now. 


Sophie is back longeing and getting riding pony ready, but if all goes well I think I'm going to send her on a lease.

And I did finish my cob shaped (aka barrel shaped) saddle stand one rainy day

There is a lot I feel like I should/could do with the horses now, but none of it is necessary and it will keep.  I'm very lucky to have G on my side, this wouldn't be doable if it was just me. He retired early (and is 10 years older than me if you're wondering about that math and me still wanting to work ;) and is doing morning pony chores most days. Plus everything else he does - he basically takes care of the house, the grocery shopping, the vehicles, the feed store trips, all those things that are so easy to take for granted but make everything so much easier.





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  1. Ugh on the fireworks. Despite living out in a *very* rural area (think 500-1000 acre farms), we had the same issue one year with neighbors and firecrackers that resulted in 100 gigantic Holstein heifers trampling their fences. That was a very fun New Year's Day!
    DH is 10 years my senior, too. We have good taste :D

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    1. Oh that's crazy! 3 horses was more than enough for me to manage :D I met my husband when I was in my 20's and all the guys my age were way too immature. No regrets :)

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  2. Holy cow! Fireworks OVER your paddock and until 3:30 in the morning?! How incredibly rude! What good ponies for keeping a lid on it. I would've for sure had a meltdown too.

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    1. My husband got all mean and shouty over the firecrackers being shot at the horses and to their credit, they hadn't thought beyond "neighbours space looks open and we don't want to shoot them where they could hit OUR buildings". So not intentionally aiming for horses. But there were about 4 other places within a 1 block radius, some with the big fireworks you'd normally see at professional events, the kind where you FEEL the concussion lol. One guy was riding around on a dirtbike throwing lit firecrackers everywhere. I was picking up pieces of firework wrappers out of the paddocks the next day. I'm all for everyone having fun, but this was excessive

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    2. Good horse husband. (I second the recommendation for supportive husbands who embrace this crazy horse-centric life we choose.)

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  3. My goodness about the fireworks! I would be furious. I'm glad y'all came out on the other side unscathed but phew. What good ponies

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    1. They were all very good. I think I was about 1000% more upset than they were, I'm mostly a pretty level person but I was so sad and angry that people think it's an acceptable tradeoff to scare all the animals so badly. There was a lot of social media posts complaining after the fact, and it felt like an equal number of community members saying it's tradition and people with scared/lost pets are at fault because they should know to get sedatives from the vet and keep their pets indoors.

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  4. I’d have lost my mind at the idiocy of these people! Like when did Halloween become a fireworks holiday? Gah, stupid people irritate the shit out of me.

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    1. I was in tears when I heard our little neighbourhood deer family fawns calling and panicking. Their mom eventually brought them up close to our barn and they all hid there. I was happy they felt safer with us, but also WHY? It's not just the horses, we live right up against the forest and there is so much wildlife here. It's so unfair to all the animals.

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  5. You have a wonderful dynamic with your DH. No one person should do it all, when there are 2 to share the workload. Good for you on exploring other work opportunities. If you don't look, you don't know.

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    1. I feel a little greedy looking for more when I do already have the job I wanted, but I think new challenges and opportunities are always a good thing.

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  6. I'm with Teresa, unbelievable that Halloween is a fireworks holiday!?!!!! So sorry you had to endure that, you and your babies.

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    1. Yes, apparently due to the original British origins here combined with a strong Chinese community way back when, it seemed logical to do Guy Fawkes and Lunar New Year celebrations on a shared holiday, so we get 100 plus years of Halloween fireworks 'tradition' in our relatively tiny corner of the world.

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  7. That is a very cool saddle stand. And I can attest to the usefulness of a good horse husband. I definitely recommend them. The fireworks experience sounds just horrible. So stressful for everyone. Glad you all stayed safe.

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    1. The horse husband thing still slightly baffles me, like I know I want this crazy life, but someone else willingly supports it? I'd love to think I'd do the same for him if he had some crazy all consuming hobby, but realistically I'd probably be busy with the horses :D

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  8. I'm so glad you were able to be present with your ponies to help mitigate for any potential damage to them or your property from their panic!

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    1. Pizza and whatever sports event we can stream at the barn has turned into our new Halloween tradition :)

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